Lessons Learnt in Life

There are some lessons I learnt the hard way but here I’ve posted some for you to make your life a little easy.

Reduce Your Risk

You can choose, you want to live now all in one ago or you want to live every day for years? Comfortably. You’ll be living but how is the question and the answer is in your hands. I can suggest but you need to work on it. To reduce the impact of any unnecessary risk to break down your smooth life- Divide your earnings into fruitful endings.

Let go perfection

This will only bring you down and make you think of your worst parts every time. The best is to think about what I have in myself which others don’t. Your skills, which others don’t. Take a minute and make a list of your perfections which you have right now and feel blessed. Don’t complain just live beautifully.

Cannot control everything!

Let things be, they are beautiful the way they are, you don’t need to control or mold into the way you want. Today, the world survived a massive pandemic and nobody could control it. Everyone is in the flow.

Not to rely on others

Try not to put your baggage on others, be self resilient, be self-confident- don’t wait for others to acknowledge or approve you. Relying for simple tasks like shopping or even a walk.. learn to enjoy your own company.. you’ll go far. When I am not with my husband, I am alone, I go for walks, I sit in cafes, I shop alone and I love freedom. Learning how to be independent. I was shy to open up but I made that first effort of opening up.

Learning the value of money

This is definitely not the easiest because we always learn a few things with age. I have done my bit of wasting money and now I have become so conscious about my purchases that I feel its a waste of energy to spoil the money instead I want to have my assets so strong that the value is appreciated than depreciated. This means I splurge, but I do with the right things.

Buying trendy clothes/designer stuff all the time

Being a woman its very hard to resist the temptation of shopping and especially with branded stuff. I indulge in stuff but rarely now as compared to my earlier life. I’ve controlled my demands a lot that now I might not buy but just recreate stuff that I already have. That will also enhance my capacity for recreating.

Swim in your lane

This one lesson taught me all the other lessons. Need to say more? The moment you start to look after yourself, you are there. Now no one can disturb your peace, your well-being, and your focus. Minding your own business is the key!